Couples often read their wedding cards together the morning after, or on the first quiet evening back from honeymoon. A short message with their names and one personal line will mean more to them than a long verse.
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What to write in a wedding card
Start with both their names. Congratulate them, then add something personal if you have it, such as how they met or a trip you took together. Finish by wishing them a happy marriage and sign off.
Keep it to the two of them. Don't mention exes or any family tension. If you're not sure whether a joke will land, leave it out.
Wedding card messages for friends
- Callie and Arjun, congratulations! We've loved watching you two together since that first awkward quiz night at the Red Lion. Here's to many more. Love, Fi and Joel.
- To Meg and Rory, wishing you the happiest day and a lovely life together. Thanks for asking us to share it with you. All our love.
- Nia and Gethin, I couldn't be happier for you both. Can't wait to see you on the dance floor. Lots of love, Beca.
- Congratulations, you two. Meeting at a bus stop in the rain and ending up here is the best story I know. Love always, Anya.
For family
- To our darling Ellis and his lovely Georgia. We're so proud of you both and so happy to welcome Georgia into the family. All our love, Mum and Dad.
- Dear Priti and Joe, Grandad and I were married for fifty-three years, and I hope you're as happy as we were. With all my love, Nana.
- To my little brother and my brand new sister-in-law. You make a great team, and I'm so pleased for you. Love you both, Jen.
- Congratulations to you both on your wedding day. We're thrilled to be there with you. With love from Auntie Lyn and Uncle Rob.
For a colleague
- Congratulations on your wedding, Leah. Wishing you and Scott a wonderful day and a very happy marriage. Best wishes from everyone in the Luton office.
- Wishing you both a lovely day and every happiness for the future. Enjoy the honeymoon in Crete. All the best, Andy.
- Dear Omar and Hana, congratulations on your marriage. Wishing you a long and happy life together. From all of us in Customer Services.
Funny wedding card messages
Keep jokes about the two of them and things they would laugh at themselves.
- Congratulations, Stef and Ryan. After six years of arguing over the thermostat, it's official. Wishing you a lifetime of compromise and warm feet.
- To Cat and Jamie. You've finally found someone who laughs at your jokes, Jamie. Hang on to her. Love from all of us.
- Josie and Idris, we're so happy for you. Please make sure Idris is kept well away from the DJ's microphone. Love, the Wednesday running club.
- Congratulations to the only couple we know who planned a wedding around the Grand National. Have a brilliant day.
For two grooms or two brides
Write to a same-sex couple exactly as you would to anyone else. Use their names and avoid "bride and groom" or "Mr and Mrs" in the wording.
- Dear Sion and Adam, congratulations on your wedding. You two make each other laugh more than anyone we know. Wishing you a wonderful day and a very happy marriage.
- To Lou and Bex, we're so happy for you both. Here's to many more Sunday walks along the prom at Weston. All our love.
- Congratulations, Reece and Dom. It's been lovely seeing you so happy. Can't wait to celebrate with you. Love, Abi and Nat.
- To the two brides! Wishing you both a lovely day and every happiness together. With love from Aunty Pam.
Wording for money, vouchers or a gift
If the couple asked for money or have a honeymoon fund, keep the wording short and never write the amount. Some simple lines that work:
- A little something towards the honeymoon. Have a wonderful time.
- We hope this helps with something special for your new home.
- Please treat yourselves to a lovely meal out on us.
If you've bought something off the gift list, there's no need to mention it in the card. The couple will know it came from you. If you bought something that isn't on the list, a short line about why you chose it is a nice touch.
More help for the wedding
If you're speaking at the wedding, the wedding speeches guide explains who speaks and when, and there are guides for the best man and the father of the bride. If you're the one getting married, see how to write your wedding vows. For other occasions, there's birthday card messages and the main card messages page.
Common questions
What do you write in a wedding card?
Congratulate the couple by name, add something personal about them if you can, and wish them a happy marriage. Two or three sentences is plenty. Sign off with "Love from" for friends and family, or "Best wishes" for people you know less well.
Should I mention money in a wedding card?
You don't need to. If you have put money or a voucher in the card, a simple line such as "A little something towards the honeymoon" is enough. Never write the amount.
Who do I address a wedding card to?
Use both first names, for example "To Callie and Arjun". If the couple are taking the same surname and you want to be formal, you can use that on the envelope, but first names are fine for almost everyone.
When should I give the wedding card?
Most people bring it on the day and leave it in the card box or on the gift table at the reception. If you can't go, post it so it arrives a few days before the wedding.